fix(node21)

closes #3693

projects/nodejs.org/package.yml

@@ -9,6 +9,7 @@ companions:
   npmjs.com: '*'
 
 dependencies:
+  # prior builds of nodejs used our icu4c
   unicode.org: ^71
   openssl.org: 1.1
   zlib.net: 1
@@ -38,8 +39,6 @@ build:
     ARGS:
       - --without-npm
       - --prefix={{ prefix }}
-      # like, maybe we should include this?
-      - --with-intl=system-icu
       - --shared-openssl
       - --shared-zlib
     linux: